Hot take: I don't think family dinners on dates are a total dealbreaker
I went on a third date where his whole family just happened to show up at the restaurant. It was super awkward, don't get me wrong, and I felt totally put on the spot. But idk, watching him get ribbed by his little sister and how he talked to his mom actually told me more about him than our other chats. Maybe it's just me, but I think how someone acts under that kind of pressure is more honest than a perfectly planned solo date.