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Can we talk about the silence after a friend asks to borrow $500?
Happened at a BBQ last weekend, and the whole vibe changed. How do you handle money talks with people you care about?
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the_holly5mo ago
That silence is the whole problem right there. It puts you on the spot in a really bad way. Maybe it's just me but asking for that much money in a social setting feels like a trap. A real friend would ask privately so you can say no without an audience. The way they asked seems more about pressure than need.
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the_sam5mo ago
You're right, @the_holly, that's a classic pressure move.
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markhall5mo ago
Yeah totally agree @the_holly. I had a buddy ask me for a loan like that once in front of a group. I just said "hey man text me later" and changed the subject. Let him know he could hit me up private but I wasn't gonna be the bad guy in front of everyone.
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