I used to think talking about money with friends was rude, but now I think not talking about it is worse
For years, I followed the rule that you never discuss your salary or rent with anyone. It felt like bad manners. Then, about two years ago, a coworker and I got drinks after a project wrapped, and he just came out and asked what I was making. I was shocked, but I told him. Turns out, he was getting paid $15,000 more for the same exact job title. That one conversation changed everything for me. Now, I bring it up with close friends, especially when we're in similar fields. It's not about bragging; it's about making sure nobody is getting screwed over. The silence only helps the bosses. How do you even start that chat without it getting weird?