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Vent: People keep forgetting that a date is a conversation, not a job interview.
I mean, I went out with a guy last month who had a list of 20 'compatibility questions' on his phone. It felt like I was applying for a position, not getting to know someone. Has anyone else had a date turn into a weird Q&A session?
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spencerm466mo ago
Ugh, I got quizzed on my five-year plan once.
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victorb746mo ago
Yeah, that's rough. But honestly, sometimes a few direct questions early on can save everyone time. The problem isn't asking things, it's how you do it. Pulling out a prepared list is just a terrible way to have a real talk.
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alice_kim6mo ago
Actually, the list thing feels like a job interview. Real talks happen when both people are just talking, not checking boxes. It kills the vibe before it even starts.
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