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Went from 0 second dates in two years to two in one month
I have been on so many bad dates where the guy talked about himself the whole time or checked his phone. After my last disaster in March where he left to take a work call and never came back, I decided I had to change something. I started being way more picky about who I even agreed to meet. Instead of saying yes to everyone, I only said yes if we had a real conversation first over text for at least a few days. It worked, I had two actual second dates this month and one of them even brought me a flower from his garden. Has anyone else tried being super selective and seen it pay off?
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bens8113d ago
Yeah being picky is way better. Quality over quantity every time.
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zarab2413d ago
The way people rush through choosing coffee shops or even what show to watch at night is the same pattern. My buddy Mike spent 20 minutes yesterday staring at a menu board at the deli just to pick a sandwich. He told me he'd rather waste that time than end up with a soggy wrap he won't finish. It's like everyone's scared of committing to anything average anymore. That pickiness isn't being difficult, it's just respecting your own time and money.
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