Last month, I was hosting a small gathering on my back deck in Spokane when a section of the railing just pulled away from the post. I had used 3-inch exterior screws, but the wood had rotted from the inside where I couldn't see. I had to quickly block it off with some scrap lumber and chairs. Has anyone found a reliable way to check for this kind of hidden rot before it fails?
Honestly, the real cost is the TIME. You're not just waiting for the party, you're blocking out whole weekends for months, hoping the weather holds. That's a huge mental load people don't talk about.
Tbh, I feel you on the "trust my deck to wait for a party to fall apart" thing. That's exactly how mine went too. What worked for me was doing a simple probe test once a year with a flathead screwdriver. You just poke it into the wood around the posts and railings, especially near the ground. If the screwdriver sinks in more than a quarter inch without much effort, you've got rot. Also, I started pulling a single screw out from the hardest-to-see spots and checking the shavings for dampness or discoloration. That caught some hidden rot on my back corner post before it became a real problem. Honestly, it's annoying to do but way cheaper than replacing a whole section after it fails.