Talking to my 14 year old cousin about her leaked passwords

So yesterday I was helping my aunt set up her new laptop and my little cousin walks in bragging about how she shared her Netflix password with five friends. I asked her if any of them had two-factor authentication turned on, and she just stared at me like I was speaking another language. That got me thinking, kids today grew up with everything already logged in on phones and tablets, so they never learned the basics of password hygiene. I sat with her for like 20 minutes showing her how to use a password manager and why she should never reuse the same pass for her school account and her bank app. She actually asked me why I cared so much, and I told her about a buddy who lost $400 last year from a phishing email that got into his old social media. Has anyone else tried explaining cybersecurity to a teenager lately and gotten that same blank look? For now I just set up a family password vault for all of us, but I dont know if she will actually use it.

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johnson.jesse21d ago

The "blank look" part got me. My nephew (also 14) once told me his password for everything was "monkey99" because he liked monkeys. I asked what he'd do if someone guessed it and he goes "who would want my account?" Like dude, they dont want YOUR account, they want access to every account youve ever touched. I tried showing him how easy it is to look up someone's email on a hacked site list and he just started playing Roblox mid conversation. I gave up and changed his wifi router password to something random just to mess with him. He still hasnt figured out why his Xbox keeps kicking him offline.

margaret9920d ago

That "who would want my account" thing hit home hard. I used to think exactly the same way back in my day. My password for everything was my initials and my birthday, used it for years. Never even crossed my mind that someone could find that stuff out. But then my email got hacked when I was 19, and whoever got in sent a bunch of creepy messages to my friends pretending to be me. That was mortifying, and it changed how I saw everything. Now I'm the one nagging my younger cousins about password managers, which feels wild because I used to roll my eyes at that kind of advice too. Maybe that's the only way it sticks, one bad experience at a time.