Honestly, my friend's dating profile went from zero to creepy in under a month

Tbh, she let a guy she met on Hinge help rewrite her bio and pick new pictures. Before, it was just normal stuff about hiking and her dog. After, it was all these intense quotes about 'finding your other half' and close-up selfies. She went on one date with him where he talked for an hour about soulmates, and now she's getting messages from guys who seem way too serious way too fast. Has anyone else had a friend's profile get weird after outside 'help'?

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julia_patel1mo ago

Has your friend looked at her own profile since he changed it? She needs to log in and put everything back the way it was, like yesterday. That guy basically catfished her with her own account, lol. Profiles that sound desperate or super intense only attract people who want to rush things. Tell her to block that guy and write her own bio about her dog again.

hart.cora1mo ago

That guy basically gave her a profile transplant with his own red flags. Julia_patel is right about putting the dog pics back, because now she's filtering for cult leaders instead of dates. How long before her new matches start asking for a blood oath?

price.tara27d ago

Oh man, I actually read something about this - there's like a whole psychology thing about how people who edit their dates' profiles are usually trying to control things from the start. It's a red flag parade. She should definitely take back her account before this guy decides she needs a new personality too.