A month of solo lunches taught me about social expectations
Honestly, I used to think skipping group meals meant you were rude or lonely. Tbh, I got tired of faking interest in chats I didn't care about. Now, I just grab my food and sit alone, no phone, just watching people. Ngl, some folks still stare, but I feel more calm and real. Looking back, I see how we're pushed to always be with others, even when we need quiet.